Gabby Windey Claims Heather Gay Tried to Hook Up with Her Wife Robby Hoffman

Gabby Windey went on First We Feast, refused to torch her mouth with a hot wing, and instead dropped a very unexpected name. Yes, it involves her wife, comedian Robby Hoffman. And yes, it is exactly as messy and funny as it sounds.

The setup: Truth or Dab, and Gabby is not here for heartburn

On a recent First We Feast segment built around answer-the-question-or-eat-the-wing, Gabby, 35, chose honesty over capsaicin. When they asked her to name the wildest run-in she has had with another reality star, she did not hesitate. Her response managed to be both spicy and very pointed about her marriage boundaries.

"Heather Gay from Real Housewives of Salt Lake City did say that she would f*** my wife."

Gabby made it clear she remembers the exchange even if Heather might not. And just so there was no confusion: she and Robby are monogamous, and Robby only has eyes for her.

Gabby also admitted the no-wing strategy was deliberate. She joked she would have answered anything to dodge the spicy option and even asked for a Prilosec, wondering why antacids were not sitting on the table like napkins. First We Feast leaned into it on social, captioning the clip with a very relatable line about avoiding the wings at all cost, complete with a crying emoji. Fans were fully entertained in the comments, calling the reveal better tea than they expected and cheering her on.

Quick rewind: Gabby and Robby

Gabby first told fans she was dating a woman in August 2023, posting on Instagram that she wanted to wait until she was ready because it felt like a bigger conversation. The reveal: her girlfriend was Robby Hoffman, 36. She described the relationship as unlike anything she had experienced before and said she wanted to let people in while being honest about her life.

• Aug 2023 - Gabby goes Instagram-official with Robby, confirming she is dating a woman and naming Robby as her partner.
• Jan 2025 - The two hold a Las Vegas ceremony.
• Apr 2025 - Gabby shares that they have legally tied the knot, posting photos with the caption: "I do thee legally wed!!"

In the wedding pics, Gabby wore a semi-sheer dress with a fitted top and a big ruffled skirt, plus a veil and hoops. Robby kept it cool in a white tee layered under a dress shirt with black shades.

The reality-TV crossover you did not have on your bingo card

So yes, a Bachelorette alum shutting down a flirty Real Housewife over her comedian wife is not the usual Monday morning headline, but it is also peak crossover chaos. The important part: Gabby is happily married, not taking applications, and still very committed to never eating that particular hot wing.